To Know Or Not To Know

I personally hate it when someone's mad at me, or disgusted with me, and won't tell me. Like if I got a little more bluntness from her earlier things may not have ended as badly. But that's not why. I prefer to know why someone's pissy with me, so that I don't keep pissing them off or I can oh I dunno, fix it? Take this one girl. She and I are on and off friends. I wouldn't even call it friends anyways. More like acquaintances or casual talkers. Now things between me and her had been fine lately. We'd talk, there was no animosity, we hung out a few times. Of course those two times weren't just the two of us, there were other people and she was probably there to chill with them more. But what I'm saying is, I don't see where things went wrong with her. Last time we hung it led to her owing me money cause I let her use my cash for makeup, I ask her about it cause I'm gonna be around where she lives in a few days and she snaps on me. She says it's cause I asked her about the money and it's really annoying, well I only mentioned it once before and that was to put it down for record. So it's not just my ego when I say, money is not why she snapped at me. Then a few days ago I found something interesting and told her, I can just tell when I said I found something that she was pissy with me. I've had my theories as to why, including her actually getting that mad about money, but I prefer not to entertain them. Instead I'll just sit and wait, something I'm good at, because as always, time heals all wounds. Unless of course it's a fatal wound, time's not gonna heal that in time.